Step Into the Work: Inside the 2026 Chile Vision Trip

Stephen Covey once wrote that good families, even great ones, are off track ninety percent of the time. The difference is not that they never drift. The difference is that they have a destination. They know what the track looks like, and they keep coming back to it. That sentence has stayed with us because it reframes the goal entirely. The goal is not to live perfectly. The goal is to have a vision clear enough that you can find your way back to it, and to build that vision on a foundation that does not reset with every generation. That is what Multigenerational Vision is. It is the first and most foundational pillar of a Kingdom Outpost family, and it may be the most countercultural idea we teach. The Problem: We Have Been Thinking Too Small Most of the messaging aimed at Christian parents today is focused on an 18-year horizon. Raise good kids. Keep them in church. Launch them well. Then, presumably, begin the chapter of life that was really for you all along. This is not a biblical vision for family. It is, at best, a cultural one with a Christian veneer. The hyper-individualism of our era has quietly reshaped how we think about parenting’s purpose. Children are increasingly seen as autonomous individuals whose job is to find themselves, and parents’ job is to facilitate that self-discovery without imposing too much vision or direction. Every major Disney film of the last two decades reinforces this. The heroic arc almost always involves rejecting parental expectation to forge your own path. The result is families that reset with every generation. Children who inherit no vision, no identity, and no story larger than themselves, and then spend their twenties and thirties wandering aimlessly or trying to construct a vision from scratch. This is a relatively recent experiment in human history, and the results are not encouraging. We are seeing historic lows in marriage rates and birthrates, unprecedented levels of loneliness among young adults, and a generation searching desperately for meaning in all the wrong places. God’s design for family was never meant to reset every eighteen years. The Blueprint: Abraham’s Story In Genesis 18:19, God reveals why He chose Abraham: “For I have chosen him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord, to do justice and judgment.” Notice what God is not saying. He is not saying Abraham was chosen because he was perfect. Abraham was not. He lied to Pharaoh about his wife, doubted God’s promise, and tried to resolve the situation himself through Hagar. His failures are well documented and deeply human. He was chosen because God knew Abraham would lead his household in faithfulness across generations. The mission was not just for Abraham. It was for his children, and for his children’s children. God’s covenantal thinking is always multigenerational. His promises in Deuteronomy 7:9 extend to a thousand generations. His charge in Deuteronomy 6 is to teach the next generation in every ordinary moment of life, when you sit, walk, lie down, and rise. Psalm 78 calls parents to pass down the story of God’s faithfulness so that the generation yet to be born will know it. The biblical vision for family does not end when our kids turn 18. This is only the beginning. Three Critical Mindset Shifts Building a multigenerational vision requires thinking differently in some fundamental ways. Here are three shifts that change everything. 1. From 18-Year Thinking to Legacy Thinking The first shift is the most basic. Stop measuring success by how quickly your children become independent. Start measuring it by the kind of adults they become, and the kind of families they build. Multigenerational families see age 18 as a starting line, not a finish line. They stay relationally and practically invested in their children’s twenties, recognizing that decade as one of the most formative and vulnerable of a person’s life. They think about what it means to stay connected across distance and life stage, not just during the years everyone lives under the same roof. The question shifts from “Am I raising a good kid?” to “Am I raising someone who can build a healthy family of their own? And would I want the child I am raising to raise my grandchildren?” 2. From Inheritance to Heritage There is a critical difference between what you leave for your children and what you leave in them. Inheritance is what you leave for them, assets, money, and property. Heritage is what you leave in them, values, faith, character, and family identity. Both matter. But inheritance without heritage is fragile. Studies show that seventy percent of wealthy families lose their wealth by the second generation, and ninety percent by the third. The Vanderbilt family is a frequently cited example. A fortune built across generations was gone within a few generations, not primarily because of bad financial management, but because the wealth was transferred without the wisdom, character, and identity needed to steward it. A strong heritage prepares the next generation to handle whatever inheritance they receive, and to pass both forward to those who come after them. 3. From Cultural Defaults to Intentional Traditions Multigenerational families do not simply inherit culture’s way of doing things. They ask why they do what they do, and they are willing to do things differently if those practices do not serve their family’s vision. This is especially visible around the table. Throughout Scripture, the table is where blessing, identity, and belonging are passed down. One of the most practical tools we recommend for families pursuing multigenerational vision is what we call Three Generations, One Table, Every Week. This is a regular meal that gathers parents, children, and grandparents together with no agenda other than presence, story, and connection. It is not efficient. It is not always comfortable. But it is transformative because it creates the sacred space where a family’s story is actually told and remembered. We recognize that not every family arrives at this table from the same place. Some of you are Isaac generations . You inherited a living faith, and your calling is to steward and build on what was handed to you. Others are Abraham generations . You are the first in your family to break from a legacy of brokenness, dysfunction, or generational idolatry. When God called Abraham, He did not ask him to honor his father Terah’s vision. Terah was an idol worshiper who never reached the Promised Land. God called Abraham to leave and pioneer something entirely new. If that is your story, do not be discouraged when three generations feels out of reach. Start with two, you and your children, and commit to the long game. Build faithfully so that your children will one day have the table you never had. Making It Practical: Where to Start A multigenerational vision does not require a 40-page document or a professional retreat. It starts with a few honest questions and the willingness to write down some answers. Begin by imagining yourself at 80, surrounded by your children and grandchildren. What do you hope they are carrying? What legacy of faith and character do you want to have passed on? What does faithfulness look like in your family’s story? Then zoom in to ten years from now. What does your marriage look like? What kind of people do you hope your children have become? What is your family known for in your community? From those answers, draft a simple family vision statement. Two or three sentences that capture who you are becoming and what you are building. It does not need to be perfect. It needs to be honest and directional. Then revisit it. Every year, review it as a family. Celebrate what is alive. Adjust what needs adjusting. Let your children shape it as they grow older, giving them increasing ownership of a vision they will eventually carry forward. A Final Word Psalm 128 paints a picture of what God calls blessed. Not wealth, not fame, and not an impressive career, but a family gathered around a table, across generations, with faith at the center. That picture is available to every family willing to pursue it. It does not require perfect people. It requires purposeful ones. No family is perfect. It is never too late to start. The vision you build today, however imperfect, will be the foundation someone else stands on tomorrow. That is worth building.

In Venezuela, SportQuest Partners like Oscar Peña and his team use sport-based training to equip families to live out their faith through service and discipleship amid ongoing crisis and uncertainty. In 2025, the team trained 165 families across Venezuela. This year, those families will reach more than 1,000 households through prayer, practical service, and the sharing of the gospel. The video below highlights a recent training where the team prepares families to identify neighbors in need, deliver food bags, and establish weekly Discovery Bible Studies—creating a multiplication effect with the potential to impact more than 6,000 people across 40 or more neighborhoods in 2026.